let’s talk about blame

But first, a story.  In April of 2019, I canceled a trip. It was my first coaching workshop in Sacramento, CA. There was a series of unfortunate events.  First, Scott…

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you complete you

You are perfect in your humanness right now, just as you are.  You don't need your spouse to validate you, prove that you are lovable, or complete you (cue Jerry…

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just offer your hand

There was a time, long ago, that I felt like Scott & I were distant. I wasn't sure if he thought so too, and I didn't ask because I was…

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choose to reset

Has this ever happened to you? You're in a bad mood; maybe you're not quite sure why but you're crabby and not acting as your best self to those around…

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should-ing X fun

Are you a "should"-er? I should do this; I should do that.What about "supposed to?"I'm supposed to do this thing or that thing.  Could you live your life without shoulds? How amazing…

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work for fun

I recently made the craziest decision... or so I thought.  I took a job for FUN. Yep, just for fun.  Y'all- this decision made no sense.  For years I believed…

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