I’m a tough-love type gal. I apply it to myself and others. I have high expectations, but I will fight for you- for YOU- just as fiercely. AND I apply the same rules for myself.
Today- running for 60 minutes- I don’t care the distance, just 60 minutes, no stopping. I don’t feel like it; I’ve been procrastinating for ~2 hours. I was planning to go at 11, it’s already 1:15, and I have an event this afternoon, so I am literally out of time. And it’s windy, and it’s overcast, and I feel so tired… but I’m still going. I’ll be out there with Crazy (AKA., Max) in the next 15 minutes.
I hope to finish the half in 2.5 hours. The race will start at 8 AM, and the half marathon awards start at 10:30 AM- so getting in in time for the awards is my goal- in addition to simply finishing.
Unfortunately, my running buddy will not be at the half marathon with me, but he enjoys all the training. 🐾
Massive Action March was so fun and successful that I decided to continue with a monthly theme- ABSURD APRIL because I plan to RUN an ABSURD amount.
I was considering running anyway… and then I heard about the half marathon in May- good time, good distance. Game on!
Who wants to join me?
I’ll post what I’m doing the day that I do it. I am NOT recommending this as YOUR plan- only you &/or trained professionals know what will work for you. I’m simply sharing my plan and what I am doing. And to be clear, I am NOT training for time. I’m training to reach my goal, complete the race, feel good, and be a more loving family member.
Two days ago, I ran 15 minutes for activity level reference, stopped for one, and ran 15 minutes back on mostly flat asphalt. The next day, I rode my bike for ~ an hour, maybe an hour -15 (?). I didn’t time it; there was a lot of wind. That is my baseline activity level.
Someone recently asked HOW to network, so here’s how to network, with a little bit of coaching, of- course, b/c that’s how I roll.
1. Research to see what events happening, when & where. Start with the local chambers of commerce, peruse Facebook by filtering for local networking events, and ask around.
2. At events, collect business cards. This way, you have a name, phone number, email address, and you can likely find the person on social media.
3. On social: send friend requests ASAP. Start liking, commenting, sharing, and hanging out with them. Be AUTHENTIC. You can literally just type your thought into the comments.
4. In-person: check those business cards and pick a few people you’re genuinely interested in getting to know better. Contact them and schedule a coffee date. When you meet with them, be present to the person in front of you. If you have a firm end time, set the alarm as a gentle reminder- this way, you don’t even have to look at the time. You can let the person know as soon as you meet them, so it’s not awkward or feel personal. Get to know them, their business, and who their ideal clients are. Note this for any potential future referrals to send their way. Listen for pain points that you could offer relief with &/or share who your ideal clients are.
5. Notice what others are doing, that you like, and do that, too. I learned to send handwritten thank-you notes, tag others on social media, and pick up the phone to speak with people by mimicking others.
Coaching tip: Be aware of your thoughts and choose HOW you want to show up. Are you worried no one will talk to you? Or they won’t like you? Or that you may have to sit alone? This feels like dread, worry, and nervousness- not the best way to show up to an event, right?
Try this instead. What qualities would you rather demonstrate? Being courageous, loving, smart, and kind. Next, ask yourself: what would someone who is courageous, loving, smart, and kind do? They would see this as a great way to meet people. They would be present to the person in front of them.
It’s late, and our WiFi has been out all weekend. I’m not taking the time to pretty this- just getting it out there. (Also, does anyone text themselves reminders?)
Y’all, this month I’m doing “Massive Action March,” and let me tell you about it!
You know, in the Little Mermaid, when Ariel gets her voice back? That’s what I’m doing.
Little by little, I’m meeting all the people. I’m getting out into my community and telling them I’m a life coach. When I hear something that I can help with- I offer to help. I’m offering value by doing three workshops this month alone. I’m finding my voice, too!
I know I’m a damn good coach. I have proof because my clients have amazing, life-changing results.
Now, I’m learning how to be an entrepreneur. And I’m being a product of my product by practicing what I preach.
1. Life does not have to be so effing hard. 2. You are an amazing human being who has kick-ass qualities, and a sometimes A-hole brain. (That’s ok, it’s just doing its job.) 3. You can achieve anything you want to.
If you want an easier life, If you want to learn your specific kick-ass qualities, If you want to discover how to handle your A-hole brain (with love and compassion), If you want to achieve everything you want, I can show you how. Reach out for a free consult. 💕
Does anyone else write reminders on their hands? Today’s reminder is to lead with my heart. There are always things to do, worries to be had, but if I lead with my heart- I can do no wrong.
