decide & commit

Even Pema Chödrön recommends we do this in her book, How to Meditate, A Practical Guide to Making Friends With Your Mind. “Decide when you are going to get into…

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change

Right when you think things can't possibly get worse, they do.  One of my clients, who is a manager, would just shrug her shoulders at all the changes & think to…

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you are not alone

So many of you think you're the only one. But you're not. I hear it from my clients all the time. The worry. The self-doubt. The not being sure. The…

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processing your emotion

In the last post, we discussed three things we can do with an emotion- resist, react to, or distract from them. Today we're going to talk about feeling & processing…

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feel your feelings

What are your thoughts about feeling your feelings & processing your emotions?  When we don't feel our feelings, they take over our day.  When we resist them, they get worse.…

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brains are just organs, too

As a reminder: our brains are organs that think just as our hearts beat and our stomachs digest.  We don't tell our brains to think. Thank goodness, right? Because otherwise,…

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discomfort either way

So often, we succumb to our negativity bias.  Both fortunately and unfortunately, it's our nature to do so.  Our negativity bias has kept us safe & alive to this day…

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