One Sentence

When I heard Gretchen Rubin’s term “midlife malaise,” it hit me like a ton of bricks—that was me. I had been lost in my own life, just drifting along, not fully engaged in living. I was constantly wondering, Is this it? Is this all there is to life?

I knew something was missing, but I had no idea how to figure out what it was.
I knew something was off, but I didn’t know how to make it right.
I wanted to be happier, to enjoy my life, to be a better wife and stepmom, but how?

Then one day, I stumbled across a quote in Real Simple magazine. It said, “What’s the goal of your life? For me, it’s to make the people I love happy and have a good time with them.”

And I thought, That’s it. That’s what I want—to live with joy, with purpose, to actually feel alive in my own life. But then that question crept back in: how?

Maybe some people are just born knowing how to live that way.
Maybe I wasn’t wired for it.
Maybe I’d missed my chance.

If this sounds familiar, let me tell you: one sentence can change your life.

For me, that sentence was: “I know exactly what to do here.”

That simple phrase helped me break free from the endless cycle of “but how?” and start believing I already had the answers. Every time I repeated it, my brain shifted from feeling stuck to offering solutions. Suddenly, ideas came to me—small actions I could take to move forward. And each time I took action, I created proof that, yes, I did know how.

Instead of feeling frustrated, hopeless, and lost, I began creating real, meaningful change in my life.

That one sentence transformed everything. It helped me stop seeking and start creating the life I’d been longing for.

So, if you’re ready to stop searching and start creating an extraordinary life, let me help you. You can get through the hard things, and you can feel fully present and engaged in your life.

Life’s too short to spend it just getting by. It’s time to start creating the extraordinary life you deserve—and I can show you how.

Are you ready to find your one sentence?

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How to Live an Extraordinary Life (Yes, Even with Your Busy Schedule)

Does the idea of living an extraordinary life feel out of reach when you’re buried in work and the endless demands of healthcare? You’re not alone if it does. But here’s a little secret: an extraordinary life is not only possible—it’s closer than you think. There’s a process to get there, one step at a time, and it starts with learning how to manage your mind.

Managing your mind is all about how you handle stress, make tough choices, and feel confident about those decisions without second-guessing. It’s not a personality trait or something you’re born with; it’s a skill you can develop. And it’s this skill that can help you live life on your own terms, even within the intense world of healthcare.

Imagine going into each day feeling clear, confident, and ready for whatever comes your way. It’s more than just surviving the day-to-day—it’s a way of actively designing a life you love, even on the busiest days.

So, how can you get started with managing your mind? Here’s one powerful step:

Notice the Little Wins  

When you finish a difficult shift or handle a challenging patient with care and patience, recognize that as a win. Confidence doesn’t come in a flash; it’s built gradually, one brick at a time, through moments like these. Acknowledging these small victories builds your resilience and reminds you that you *are* in control.

By making a habit of celebrating these everyday successes, you’ll find yourself feeling more confident and at ease with life’s demands. It might feel small, but the benefits add up. And over time, this mental clarity and confidence become the foundation for a life you love—one you’re designing, not just letting happen.

Living an extraordinary life in healthcare isn’t about changing careers or dropping all your commitments. It’s about taking ownership of your mindset, finding clarity, and building confidence that sticks.

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Join me on November 13 for an online masterclass on Boundaries, where we’ll dive into strategies to build a life that fits you. Or, if you’re ready to take a deeper dive, stay tuned for a special offer designed to set you up for your best year yet. (Let me know if you want to be one of the first to know.)

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From Overwhelmed to Organized

If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed by paperwork or endless to-do lists, you’re not alone. In healthcare, staying organized can feel impossible.

Early in my career as a nurse manager, I found myself buried in piles. Sticky notes, papers, and random notes covered my desk, with no clear system for organizing them. Despite taking detailed notes during meetings, they would end up in the same chaotic stacks. I wasted time searching for what I needed, felt constantly behind, and my stress levels steadily increased.

One particularly chaotic week pushed me to my breaking point. I knew I couldn’t continue this way and had to find a better system. That’s when I came across David Allen’s Getting Things Done. I read it over a weekend and immediately felt inspired to take action. The following Monday—on my day off—I went into the office and completely overhauled everything. I sorted papers, created systems, and organized my tasks in a way that finally made sense.

The results were almost immediate. Once I implemented these strategies, everything changed. I stopped wasting time searching for documents and felt a newfound sense of control that I hadn’t experienced in a long time. My stress decreased, my productivity improved, and I could finally focus on what mattered most.

This experience taught me that everyone needs a system that works for them. The key is to start small by addressing the areas that cause the most stress. Develop a routine for reviewing tasks, and use tools that support your workflow.

Working in healthcare, chaos often feels unavoidable, but it doesn’t have to be that way. Small, intentional changes in how you organize your work can make a huge difference in how you feel and how productive you are.

If you’re feeling overwhelmed, there’s a way through—and I can help. I coach healthcare professionals to find clarity, reduce stress, and create systems that truly work. Send me a message or book a complimentary, no-obligation consultation, and let’s get you back on track.

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Time Management Starts with Knowing What’s Truly Important

You’re used to managing chaos. Emergencies, unexpected changes in patient needs, and shifting priorities come with the territory. But here’s something you may not realize: one of the keys to better time management is clarifying what truly matters.

In the fast-paced world of healthcare, it’s easy to feel like every task is urgent. You’re constantly pulled between patient care, documentation, team communication, and the small details that can eat up your time. What often happens is that the most important tasks—the ones that truly make a difference in patient outcomes and your job satisfaction—get buried under everything else.

Here’s the truth: good time management isn’t about doing more. It’s about doing what matters most. That starts with getting clear on your priorities, and here’s how you can start:

1. Define Your Non-Negotiables  

Not every task is equally important. Think about your day-to-day: what tasks must get done no matter what? These might be critical patient assessments, medication administration, or even checking in with your team. Identify 2-3 tasks that are truly non-negotiable each day. Let these be the anchor points for your time.

2. Use Microblocks of Time  

Healthcare shifts rarely go as planned. Between patient emergencies and last-minute changes, the day can feel unpredictable. Instead of fighting this reality, work with it. Break your tasks into smaller “micro blocks” of time. Even 5-10 minutes can be used productively—whether it’s catching up on charting, prepping for the next patient, or organizing supplies. Use these short bursts of time to knock out smaller tasks instead of waiting for a big chunk of time that may never come.

3. Say ‘No’ with Confidence  

One of the hardest things for healthcare workers is setting boundaries. When a colleague asks for help, or your manager assigns an extra task, it’s tempting to say yes. But saying yes to everything often means saying no to your own priorities. Practice saying no when a task doesn’t align with your core responsibilities. This isn’t about being difficult—it’s about protecting your time so you can focus on what really matters.

4. Batch Similar Tasks Together  

The constant back-and-forth between different types of tasks—like patient care, charting, and meetings—can cause mental fatigue and slow you down. Instead, try batching similar tasks together. For example, dedicate a block of time to complete all your charting at once instead of doing it between every patient. You’ll find that staying in one mode of thinking can help you get through your tasks more efficiently and with less stress.

5. Prioritize Breaks for Mental Clarity  

It’s easy to skip breaks when you’re busy, but this can actually hurt your productivity. Taking short breaks helps reset your mind and can make you more effective when you return to work. Prioritize short, regular breaks to boost your mental clarity. Even five minutes to step away, take a deep breath, or hydrate can make a huge difference in your ability to stay focused and efficient.

By incorporating these small yet powerful shifts into your daily routine, you’ll start to see improvements in how you manage your time and energy. The goal isn’t to be perfect; it’s to be intentional. Time management is about using the time you *do* have more wisely—so you can provide better care to your patients and experience more peace during your shift.


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life is 50/50

We often find ourselves striving for perfection, aiming to create an environment where everything runs smoothly and everyone feels their best. However, one of the most liberating realizations we can have is that life is inherently balanced between positive and negative experiences. This concept, often referred to as the 50/50 principle, suggests that life is composed of roughly 50% fulfilling, uplifting moments and 50% challenging, difficult ones. Sometimes, this ratio might feel more like 80/20 or 20/80, but over time, it tends to balance out. Understanding this can profoundly impact how we approach our personal and professional lives.

The Duality of Life: Light and Darkness

Imagine the cycles of day and night. Without darkness, we wouldn’t truly appreciate the light. Similarly, the challenging moments in our lives give depth and meaning to the joyful ones. For example, a nurse who has experienced the stress of an overflowing ER on a busy night can deeply appreciate the calm and satisfaction of a smoothly running shift. Without the chaos, the calm wouldn’t be as gratifying.

Examples from Healthcare

  1. Patient Outcomes:
  • Positive: Successfully helping a patient recover and witnessing their gratitude can be incredibly rewarding.
  • Challenging: Facing a difficult case where, despite your best efforts, the outcome is not as hoped. These moments are tough but teach us resilience and compassion.
  1. Work Environment:
  • Positive: Being part of a supportive team where everyone collaborates effectively.
  • Challenging: Experiencing conflicts or miscommunications with colleagues. While uncomfortable, these situations can lead to growth in conflict resolution and teamwork skills.
  1. Personal Growth:
  • Positive: Feeling confident and competent in your role, knowing you are making a difference.
  • Challenging: Dealing with self-doubt or a mistake that shakes your confidence. These moments can drive you to improve and learn more.

Embracing the Balance

Realizing that it’s unrealistic to feel 100% positive all the time is crucial. Life’s challenges do not diminish its value; rather, they enhance our ability to appreciate the good times. As healthcare providers, this understanding can help us manage our expectations and reduce the pressure we place on ourselves.

  • Acceptance: Acknowledge that not every day will be perfect. Some days will be harder than others, and that’s okay.
  • Perspective: Reflect on past experiences where challenges led to personal or professional growth. This can help shift your perspective and find value in difficult times.
  • Self-Compassion: Be kind to yourself. Understand that experiencing difficult emotions doesn’t mean you’re failing; it’s a natural part of the human experience.

Conclusion

Embracing the 50/50 principle allows us to navigate our lives with more grace and acceptance. As healthcare providers, understanding this balance can help us better cope with the inevitable ups and downs of our profession. By recognizing that both light and darkness play a role in our journey, we can find deeper fulfillment and resilience in our everyday experiences.

Let’s strive not for a life free from challenges but for a balanced life where we appreciate the beauty of the positive moments and find strength and growth in the difficult ones.


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the closet

Picture this: You’re standing in your closet, rifling through clothes, and the conversation with your spouse is getting heated. Your face is flushed, your heart rate picks up, and the words you’re exchanging are sharp and cutting. You’re frustrated, feeling trapped in a cycle of annoyance and anger. But then, a startling realization hits you – your spouse isn’t even there. They’re actually sitting peacefully in the dining room. The entire argument was just in your head.

How often do we find ourselves in this situation, having imaginary battles and emotional outbursts over scenarios that are only playing out in our minds? This story might sound familiar to many of us, and it highlights an important aspect of our mental and emotional well-being: our thoughts have immense power, but they are just that – thoughts.

Recognizing the Power of Your Thoughts

In the story, the person in the closet is completely immersed in their thoughts, to the point where their body reacts as if the imagined argument is real. This physical response – the heat, the frustration, the annoyance – is a clear indicator of how powerful our thoughts can be. But here’s the crucial takeaway: those thoughts are not necessarily reality. They are just one person’s interpretation and projection of potential scenarios.

The Key to Awareness: It’s Just Your Thoughts

Understanding that it’s just your thoughts is the first step towards gaining control over your emotional responses. When you realize that the conversation in your head isn’t actually happening, you gain the power to choose how to react. You can decide whether to engage with those thoughts, believe them, or act upon them.

Imagine if the person in the closet took a moment to pause, take a deep breath, and recognize that their spouse is in the dining room, unaware of the turmoil in the closet. This pause can shift the entire dynamic. Instead of spiraling into anger and frustration, they can choose to address the situation calmly or even decide that the argument isn’t worth having at all.

The Choice is Yours

As human beings, we have the incredible ability to choose how we respond to our thoughts. This doesn’t mean suppressing or ignoring them but rather acknowledging their presence and then deciding how much weight to give them. Here are a few steps to help you navigate this process:

  1. Pause: When you feel yourself getting overwhelmed by your thoughts, take a moment to pause and breathe. This simple act can create the space needed to step back and gain perspective.
  2. Have Awareness: Recognize that the thoughts running through your mind are just that – thoughts. They are not necessarily true.
  3. Question Your Thoughts: Are they based on assumptions or facts? This can help you determine how to respond.
  4. Choose Your Response: Decide how you want to act or react. Remember, you have the power to choose a response that aligns with your values and desired outcomes.

Conclusion

The next time you find yourself in an imaginary argument or feeling overwhelmed by your thoughts, remember the person in the closet. Acknowledge that it’s only your thoughts creating the turmoil, and you have the power to choose how to respond. By practicing awareness and intentionality, you can navigate your thoughts more effectively and create a more peaceful and empowered life.


Reminder: as part of the benefits offered at Logan Health Whitefish, employees get free coaching sessions. You can book an in-person coaching session here or a remote/Zoom coaching session here

your self-concept

If you struggle to meet your goals and often let yourself down, this is for you. To be clear, this one is about your self-concept rather than the actions you do (or don’t) take.

You probably often hear me talking about creating and living a life you love. 

Your self-concept is how you CREATE your life rather than just life happening TO you.

It’s about deciding in advance what you want for your life and who you must be to create that life. 

If you’re trying to create results in your life and taking lots of action without addressing your self-concept, it will not work. 

If who you are being doesn’t match the results you’re working to create, you will sabotage your results every single time. 

For example, if you identify as someone who is overwhelmed, overwhelm the result you will produce. 

You simply cannot create results without changing your identity and your self-concept.

Here’s how to change your self-concept: 

  1. Assess—where are you now, and where do you want to be? 
  2. Define—why do you want it? Why is it important to you? And who do you need to be to get it? Consult with your future self. 
  3. Decide—what you want to change. What can you do to get from here to there, and where do you want to start? If necessary, borrow from other areas where you have created change. Consider how you did it and apply that here. 
  4. Plan and implement while also becoming the person who creates new results. 
  5. Evaluate your results—Find evidence that who you are becoming and what you are doing is working. Then, see what you might want to try differently (if anything). 

Then, as I love to say—wash, rinse, repeat; this is an ongoing process. 

This is how life works. We are constantly evolving and striving for the next thing. When we’re done, we’re dead, so learn to appreciate the journey.


If this interests you and you would like to learn more about changing your self-concept, join me via Zoom on Wednesday, July 17th, at 11 AM MT for the next FREE monthly masterclass. Registration is required, and you can do so by clicking here.


As a reminder, as part of the benefits offered at Logan Health Whitefish, you are entitled to fully confidential coaching at no cost to you. (Yes, it’s free for you). You can book an in-person coaching session here or a remote/Zoom coaching session here. If you have any questions, just email me at Christine@christineseager.com.

Do you think you can change?

Or do you believe that you are who you are and it is what it is? 

Often, when you’re up to something new or different, you will inevitably get uncomfortable. Then, you will have the urge to repeat or reinforce who you ARE instead of who you WANT to be. 

It may sound like this: 

  • I’m always late. 
  • I’m not a good nurse. 
  • I’m just a procrastinator; I do things best at the last minute. 
  • I can never remember anything.
  • I’m always exhausted. 

What if instead of, “This is just who I am…” 

There is simply some discomfort that you can learn to sit with instead.

Remember, your brain’s job is to keep you the same. 

It doesn’t want to change, grow, or do different things. 

It likes same-same. 

So when you try to adopt a new belief about yourself, to do or create something new, your brain will urge you to reinforce your current ways. 

It will hold you back from taking enough consistent and tangible action to create a different result. 

Instead, have awareness. 

Notice when you’re reinforcing your old beliefs. 

Notice how often you tell yourself: I can’t do that; I don’t know how. I’m not a good nurse; she is better. I’m never on time. I’m just forgetful, etc. 

With that new awareness, you will see what you’re doing, and you can question if it’s true. 

Are you really never, ever a good writer at all? Never? 

Are you never, ever on time, or can you get to work on time; you’re just perpetually late to dinner with friends? 

Do you really always forget things, or do you only forget things that seem inconsequential? 

Can you figure out how to do something you’ve never done before? And if so, where might one start? 

Be honest with yourself and your brain. 99.999% of the things it tells you are not true. 

Once you dispel these myths it’s offering you, you can start to build the belief that you are, indeed, able to change. 

And you can resist the urge to reinforce the belief that you can’t. 

Simply choose not to repeat those beliefs to yourself. 

Since you’re on time for work, you can be on time. 

Since you remember your child’s birthday, you can remember things. 

Since you can put together furniture, you can figure things out. 

Just because she is a good nurse doesn’t mean you aren’t a good nurse, too.

Find more and more evidence for how this is true. 

Then, repeat these new beliefs- the beliefs of someone who you WANT to be. 

In time, you will become the person you want to be and look back, astonished that you’re no longer that person over there; you’ve become this person over here– the person you want to be. 

If this interests you and you would like to learn more about how to change your self-concept- the perception you have about yourself and who you are, join me via Zoom on Wednesday, July 17th at 11 AM MT for the next FREE monthly masterclass. Registration is required, and you can do so by clicking here.


As a reminder, as part of the benefits offered at Logan Health Whitefish, you are entitled to fully confidential coaching at no cost to you. (Yes, it’s free for you). You can book an in-person coaching session here or a remote/Zoom coaching session here. If you have any questions, just email me at Christine@christineseager.com.

The Difference Between & Solutions for Burnout & Overwhelm

Burnout is defined as a person in a state of physical or mental collapse caused by overwork or stress. 

It happens when you are producing results– like your hair is on fire, but you’re pushing through it, still working, still doing. It might look like things are fine, but you’re slowly dying on the inside. 

People think this happens when we work too many hours or too hard, but not necessarily. You can work many hours and still not get burned out, and you can work very hard and not get burned out. It’s the thoughts behind it, the attitude that leads to burnout. 

When I worked in the ER, I likened this to the difference between a busy day and a cluster eff day. We could see 60 patients in a 12-hour shift, and things could go smoothly, like clockwork, or we could see 30 patients in 12 hours & it could be a cluster— a big difference. In either case, everything could go sideways, but you can think: this always happens to me. Or you can think: this is what happens in a busy ER; this is just part of the deal. This is what I signed up for. 

Burnout happens when you’re trying to outrun a negative emotion. 

The solution is to give yourself more space. Relax, slow down, and be more intentional with your actions. Work smarter, not harder. Rest, take a break if you can. Manage your mind. Purposefully direct it to better thoughts. 

For example: 

  • I signed up for this when I took this job. 
  • People are out enjoying the nice weather; of course, there are a lot of injuries now. 
  • Tourists are also trying to enjoy the outdoors. Sometimes, they don’t know what they’re doing and make poor decisions, which can be costly—both physically and financially. 
  • I’m glad they’re here, and I’m equipped to help them. 

Overwhelm is defined as being overcome completely; to overpower, especially with superior force, to cover or bury beneath a mass of something.

Overwhelm happens when you are not producing results, like when your hair is on fire and you’re running around in circles.

It’s an emotion, a way for your brain to stay comfortable because when we feel overwhelmed, we often resist, react, or distract (aka. do nothing; take no action; spin our wheels). 

The good news is— because it is an emotion, you have control over it. Since you are creating it, you can change and manage your overwhelm. 

Overwhelm looks like feeling confused about what to do (how to get started or what to do next). You might have an unclear plan and procrastinate, thinking, “I don’t know what to do; I’m just so busy.” 

But it doesn’t have anything to do with your to-do list. It has to do with the thoughts in your brain about how overwhelmed you feel. You’re likely spending more time thinking overwhelming thoughts than actually doing things or taking action. (Also, notice that if you have a to-do list, then you actually know what to do, so check your list.) 

You can tell this is you because you see that you haven’t actually done much. You’re spinning, not creating. 

The solution is to plan and then do; take action. Make decisions: Pick one thing and do it, then the next, and the next. Constrain to doing one thing at a time, not all of the things at once. Take intentional action and get things done. All while managing your mind—not letting it run amok, thinking overwhelming thoughts, and creating the feeling of overwhelm. 

Knowing the difference between burnout and overwhelm will help you determine solutions to mitigate each in your life so that you can create and live a life you love rather than just going through the motions.

What are your thoughts? What are your questions? What would you love to learn more about here? Leave your comments below.


Reminder: as part of the benefits offered at Logan Health Whitefish, employees get free coaching sessions. You can book an in-person coaching session here or a remote/Zoom coaching session here

You can register for the next free Christine Seager Coaching Masterclass on How to Change Your Self-Concept by registering here.

collaborate

Are you someone who would like to have a better relationship with someone than you do now? 

Perhaps it’s your direct reports, your teen, or your spouse. 

When they feel safe sharing openly with you, there will be less conflict, tension, and chaos and more connection, cooperation, confidence, and trust. Managing, parenting, and being in a relationship will stop feeling so hard, and you will experience more calm, peace, and joy. 

The first step is to notice when you are triggered. How does it feel in your body? For me, I feel tight and tense. It feels like my blood pressure is rising; maybe my hands are in fists. My heart rate is faster, and my heart is pounding. 

To calm your emotions, get curious. Take a deep breath & think to yourself, “I wonder what happened here.” 

When you’re calm, you can respond intentionally rather than react emotionally. 

When you’re calm, they will be more open to having a conversation with you rather than shutting down. 

Next, find a good time to talk to them and state what you see objectively. 

State the facts, just the facts, with no tone or judgment (which you can do now that you’re being curious). 

My favorite phrase is, “I notice… [state fact].” 

I.E., “I notice a vape pen in your backpack.” 

Or “I noticed you were 20 minutes late to work.” 

These words from you will help them stay open and not defensive because they are not anticipating being in ‘trouble,’ judgment, or anger. 

Next, validate to show understanding. When you normalize what they are feeling, they feel like you understand them, you get them, and they remember that you are on the same team. 

You will reflect back their feeling and acknowledge the situation. 

I.E., “It makes sense that you feel left out when all your friends vape.” 

Or, “It’s understandable that you were 20 minutes late when you discovered that your car door was frozen shut.” 

Important note: this does not mean you agree with or condone their behavior. You are merely validating their experience. 

Then, invite their solution. 

People have an overwhelming desire to do well. We want to have autonomy and figure things out on our own. As managers, we want to ensure they stay within organizational boundaries. As parents, we want to help them build problem-solving skills safely and with our guidance. 

You can do this by simply asking them, “What are you going to do?” 

Your kids might respond by saying they don’t know. You can help them unhinge their inner knowledge by following up with, “I know you are really smart; I bet you can figure this out.” Or you can ask, “What would you tell __ (state their friend’s name here) to do?” This helps separate them from the problem and helps them come up with creative solutions. 

Lastly, make sure they know you are available for support and guidance by simply offering, “I’m here if you’d like help.” 

When you communicate collaboratively, you will be amazed at how much better your relationships can be with less stress, worry, and anxiousness. 


Reminder: as part of the benefits offered at Logan Health Whitefish, employees get free coaching sessions. You can book an in-person coaching session here or a remote/Zoom coaching session here

P.P.S. You can register for the next free Christine Seager Coaching Masterclass on How to Change Your Self-Concept by registering here.